Labor Day. What a fitting time to call to mind my Slovenian maternal grandfather, Ivan (John/Jack) Bernard Kobe. Why so? Well, as other writers in this newspaper have expressed regarding their own ancestors, my grandfather was a diligent, hard-working Slovenian immigrant; the son of Ivan, Sr. and Ana.
Great Grandfather Ivan left the tiny hamlet of Sinji Vrh near the Croatian border at a time when that landscape was part of the Austro-Hungarian Empire. He rode a train from Ljubljana to Germany where he boarded a ship that eventually landed him on Ellis Island. From there, through a sequence of trains, Great Grandfather made his way to Minnesota, eventually settling in the iron mining town of Aurora where he found work as a blacksmith in the mines. Labor? Think about the journey Ivan, Sr. made without his beloved (and pregnant) wife and toddler son, expecting his young family to follow him to the New World. Such grit. Such fortitude. Or, as the Finns who worked alongside Great Grandfather in the mine would say, such sisu!
Jack and his mother, heavy with child (my great uncle Fred) later joined Ivan in Aurora. Like all Slovenians of that time, they were devoted Roman Catholics, their faith instilling in them a determination of working hard, learning a new language, and modeling piety: no easy tasks in the rough and tumble world of the Mesabi Iron Range. And in a story oft repeated amongst immigrant families of divergent nationalities to Northeastern Minnesota’s hardscrabble mining regions (there were three Iron Ranges at the time: the Mesabi, the Cuyuna, and the Vermillion), Grandpa Jack, though an intelligent and curious student in the Aurora public schools, found himself compelled by poverty and circumstances (the Kobe family would eventually grow to include Fred, Ann, Joe, Mary, and Steve (“Stutz”)) to end his formal education after eighth grade.
As a fifteen-year-old young man Jack began working in the mines. Though not highly educated, Jack displayed a native intellect that saw him work his way out of the open pit into the mine’s payroll office. Though I never, in the twenty-one years I knew my grandfather, ever heard Jack Kobe utter a word of Slovenian, I heard him mutter a few curse words in Finnish when he was working in his basement shop crafting shelves, birdhouses, and a doghouse for my first black Labrador. Seems he had to learn Finnish to deal with his fellow miners when handing out their pay! In fact, this is as good a place as any to tell you this: other than one, small snippet of his immigration story, Jack never relayed anything about his heritage, upbringing, or his life as a miner in Aurora. The one immigrant tale? I remember Grandpa telling me that, as the ship he and his mother were aboard sailed across the Atlantic, the highlight of the voyage was befriending an Italian boy who had a rascal of a dog. Two immigrant children, ignorant of each other’s mother tongue, bonded over that dog in such a remarkable fashion it was the one memory of his immigration story Jack shared with his eldest grandchild. Which also leads to this truth: Jack never spoke about his Slovenian heritage and my mother, the eldest of two Kobe daughters, always insisted, until I was out of high school, that we were “Austrian” on her father’s side. Only my Great Aunt Ann, a miner’s widow in Aurora, and her other siblings held close to the Catholicism of their heritage and preserved culinary traditions such as potica and sarma. Those Iron Range relatives, my great uncles, great aunts, and assorted cousins were the only links between myself and Slovenia during my youth.
While working in the mines during the early 1920s, Jack had the good fortune (at least for me, since I’m a descendent of the event!) of being asked to guide a group of single, female schoolteachers from the Aurora schools on a tour of the mine. As indicated, while not highly educated, my grandfather possessed a sharp mind; one that allowed him to not only learn the complexities of the Finnish language but also English such as he was selected to escort the teachers. That’s the event that caused my maternal grandmother, Eloise (“Marie”) Barber, a very prim and proper young teacher from the suburbs of Chicago (Oak Park; she attended the same high school as Ernest Hemingway several years before the author was enrolled) to become acquainted with the short, dapper, intelligent Jack Kobe. Very soon, the two became a couple and soon thereafter, engaged. During their whirlwind courtship, Jack acquiesced to Marie’s insistence they be wed in the Episcopal Church, thereby ending Jack’s life as a Catholic.
As the daughter of middle-class ancestral Americans, Marie spent girlhood summers in the bucolic lake country of central Wisconsin. Those escapes from the heat, noise, and congestion of urban Chicago gave my grandmother, who was, in addition to being a teacher, a musician (she played piano in Aurora’s silent movie theater) and a poet (she loved Robert Service) a yearning to own a place in Minnesota’s Northwoods. As the couple settled in Duluth (Jack took a job as a salesman with Berwind Coal), and proceeded to start a family (my mother, Barbara was born in 1927; her sister, my aunt, Susanne was born a few years later), Marie’s vision of owning a family-friendly resort on a quintessential Minnesota lake took flight. In 1939, while still working as a salesman in Duluth, Jack found the couple’s Shangri-La: 160 acres of lakeshore on Bear Island Lake south of Ely. Whether my grandfather saw an advertisement for the parcel in a local newspaper or happened upon the land on one of his sojourns (he often hitched rides on ore trains: his canvas and cedar strip 18’ Old Town Voyager canoe strapped beside him as he rode an empty ore car in search of trout and walleye paradise), Jack laid down $1,000 of his hard earned savings to buy the parcel from the widow of a Finnish logger. By 1939, the Buena Vista (Beautiful View) Resort, a collection of small housekeeping cabins, a store, a light plant (the REA had not yet come to the area), and a fish shack had been erected by Finnish carpenters and the place was open for business.
Jack and Marie and their daughters operated the resort until 1954, the year I was born. Though Jack wasn’t highly educated, being married to a Normal-school ex-teacher, and being of keen mind, he valued higher education such that he and Marie made the decision to sell the resort to fund college for their girls. Despite having been an Episcopalian for over thirty years, Jack insisted his daughters attain a quality, Benedictine education at the College of St. Scholastica in Duluth. Both my mother and my aunt graduated from that formerly all-women’s institution with professional degrees.
Marie died when I was very young. Jack remarried and continued working as a salesman into the 1970s when he retired. But true to his hardworking nature, Ivan “Jack” Kobe didn’t sit idle while collecting Social Security. No, Grandpa, like so many immigrants, was not one to binge watch Lawrence Welk (though the program was always on when we came to visit and held no allure for a young boy!). Putting his native abilities as a carpenter and painter to good use, Grandpa accepted a position as the custodian of a local Lutheran church while continuing his involvement with his own ELCA church and the Masons.
Ivan “Jack” Kobe never, not once, after landing on the shores of America, lamented the life he’d left behind in Slovenia. I, however, have two regrets. First, I’m sorry I never had the courage to ask Grandpa Jack about his immigrant journey and his remarkable life in America. Additionally, Jack Kobe died in June of 1976, the very month I began dating René Privette, the Catholic girl who became my wife. René would’ve loved that hardworking Slovenian as I did. I know this to be the case because, when our fourth son was born twenty years after Grandpa’s passing, it was René who suggested our youngest son be named Jack.
And he was.
Judge Mark Munger is a third generation Slovenian who was a prosecuting attorney and a District Court Judge in NE Minnesota for over forty years. He retired from the Bench in 2023 and lives on the banks of the wild and scenic Cloquet River in NE MN with his wife and their three hunting dogs. Mark is the author of fourteen books. His debut novel, The Legacy, a novel set in WW II Yugoslavia and present-day Minnesota, is a regional bestseller. He’s currently editing a new novel set in Slovenia before, during, and after WWII with the working title The Sadness of Doves. In the current book Mark explores the sad and brutal history of the Balkans and tries to answer the question “Why?” He’s presently seeking a publisher for the novel. You can find his work at: www.cloquetriverpress.com .
((c) 2026 Mark Munger. This essay first appeared in the September 2026 issue of the Slovenian American Times.)

From Left: First row-Mary, Jack, Fred, Joe, and Anna Kobe. Second row-Ivan, Steve (Stutz), and Ana Kobe.





































After Roni’s death, Mike, who needed to get away from Duluth’s dismal winter, organized trips to Scottsdale, AZ, where his sister Patty and brother-in-law Rob lived. He made arrangements with his nephew for lodging for his Duluth pals and introduced us to the beauty of the desert. After Mike married Jill (a ’74 classmate and fellow West Ender), the Towns rented places in Oak Creek and Prescott and spent winters free of Duluth’s forbidding snows. Those forays into Arizona convinced my wife, René, we needed to buy a trailer (I call it the SAT (René’s Small Assed Trailer)) and haul our house on wheels to Camp Verde, AZ . Along the way, I presided over Mike and Jill’s nuptials in the backyard of their West Duluth home followed by a raucous celebration at the Kom On Inn. Sadly, the reception was the last time I saw John McLoughlin. He died not long thereafter. But from that loss, Mike constructed a notable celebration. When he found out John’s children were struggling to hold a memorial for John (a guitarist and filmmaker) Mike took the bull by the horns and got Bruce, Dave Michelson, me, and Scott Mork (’74) to fund the event at the iconic West Theatre. It was a very, very special night of Quegleys, stories, libations, eulogies, and way too much Sammy’s Pizza! (Above photo: Larry, Mike, and Pat @ The Cabin).




























































































































